Reacting to The Ick List Problem [11:46-16:48]

Oh my god he's feeding our baby. He is bonding with our baby. He's being a good dad. Oh my god that is disgusting. He's just feeding a baby. You you think it's icky that your man is an involved father? You guys disgusting you don't understand. Equal participant in domestic labor is icky to you now. Yes. What do you want? What do you want? I'm telling you they want men to disappear from the earth. For men. Men don't do enough. You not like that that's icky. We need more help around the house. Men helping around. Can't imagine that you're looking at your husband, thinking care of your child, and you're like oh my god I'm disgusted. Damn like what? How can you feel like that? That's your son or daughter and their dad together. How can you not feel happy and warm inside when you see that? My house is icky. We need more men involved in parents. I don't get it. That being involved in parenting is icky. This is so self-destructive. New ick unlocked. They're they're carrying a large box. It's just two men helping each other carry a very large box. Does she want one of them to like one arm it or something? Maybe because they're walking with the box. Yeah, you know what's probably is breaking your back doing unnecessary lifting when someone is there to help you. What is it that they're always saying that the male loneliness epidemic is really because men don't have enough male friends and yet here's a male friend offering his other male friend to help him with a job and yet when men help each other therefore resolving the whole toxic masculinity men not having enough brotherhood issue it's it's an ick. I get it now. I get why men are just giving up and walking away. I get it. New ick when he can't find parking. Oh, it looks like that's not his fault. What is he supposed to do if everyone has like taken the parking spot? What is he supposed to do? Just kick the other car out. We got a bit of gay on gay crime with that one. Okay, so it's not just women making ick lists. The mold was gay. I mean, nothing really matters. We get to reach other two now, I guess. You're just being a hater though because like we're all annoyed by being unable to find parking downtown. I think I don't think anybody is like I love parking downtown. I don't I don't think anybody feels that way, but it's like then you do it. Then do a little Chinese fire drill and you get in the driver's seat and do it. Okay, I yeah, I'm sure you'll do such a better job and be way less annoyed. New ick unlocked. And when he's cool. And it's just them who look. Oh my god, I want to who look how hoop again. This is a home. Wait, really quick. I just want to replay this because like look how happy he is. But it's a weirdo because like they're literally at a place where everyone is with a whooping, so it's an event where you're supposed to be a who-to-whooping. Like why did you even go here if that's your ick in the first place? That's such a good time. And this is just another huge problem that I have with this ick list trend is that so many of the things that these women are criticizing men. Is that they're happy? It's stuff that makes them happy. Or are the exact type of things that the most toxic alpha male bully that you knew in high school would make fun of other people for calling them gay or calling them f-a-g's for it. Just for not falling in line with the most stereotypical form of masculinity. Like the same women who say that they want men to be emotionally intelligent and gentle are now acting like the biggest a-holes in the world whose primary job in life is making people hate themselves. Women love blaming men for toxic masculinity and yet here they are at the heart of reinforcing the idea that there is a very specific way to be a man and fuck you if you don't fall in with that exact archetype. My watch just told me I earned another stand goal. I've been sitting for 35 minutes. Yeah, though, I feel that sometimes I'm like sitting or I'm cooking and my watch is like, good job, daily step goal achieved. I'm like, okay, I guess. All right, I guess they like recognize my Italian arm movement as like standing, I guess. Now we can go through all 888 videos of what's on these eclists. You know, don't jump. Don't eat soup! Don't mow the lawn. Well, that's very funny because I thought what we don't quote that was like one of the tours that usually the mandas quote unquote. Don't you sauce, don't ice skate, don't eat soup. Don't wear socks. Don't look for parking. Don't mow the lawn. Don't eat food. But I nobody got time for that. Instead, let's close out this video talking about why this trend is happening and what the terrible outcomes of it have been. The first reason that I believe this has become popular is